I have been asked what my relationship is with my ‘boys’, the enchaste ones, and the answer is, like most relationship questions, “it varies”. I have what I generally refer to as my ‘household’, which is an inner circle all of whom stay over/live-in at various times – it can get crowded sometimes, but what the heck – they’re submissives: I can store them in the cupboard under the stairs 
They’re all independent people – highly mobile ones in a couple of cases – so one week can be quite unlike another, but the fluidity suits me. Except when I’m up to my ears in everything when they just have to take their blue balls and run along with them.
Outside of that I have people who want me to control them …or part of them… and if they can enrich my life and experience in some way I’m quite open to engaging at some level. And just to be clear, I’ve never found ‘keyholding’ in a Pro-Domme sense to be a worthwhile experience and I don’t do it, although I have scene friends who offer the service and find it integrates well with their other services. Different strokes as they say.
That’s about it, apart from the cats, but they faced the ultimate in chastity play some time back…
Tags: Chastity Relationships, femdom
